New tea friends at U of O! |
I graduated from the U of O in the
Summer of 199? Wow, that's a bad sign. But, here I am, back on
campus, just outside of Friendly Hall. After all of my education, I
turned out to be the street vendor that students can boss around if
they don't understand manners. And I am here to tell you, if you
really make it in life, you will be a street vendor, right here on
this very campus, where you currently go to school. Well, I guess
that's what success meant to me because there I was...a campus street
vendor of tea. Actually that has a nice ring to it.
What does it mean to have a tea friend?
Is a tea friend someone who you sit around drinking tea with all day
or night? It might be, but here is one version of a tea friend. It
can be compared with poet friend or, 詩友
(shi you). A poetry friend is one who you take turns sharing
poems with. A common interaction between poet friends might be that
one of them would read or recite a poem that had a particular theme.
Then you would continue on that theme or expand upon it, leading to
something else. Tea friends share infusion after infusion of tea.
There are no rules about sharing, and this is not a normal way of
drinking tea with friends. I see behavior most like this when I drink
tea with other tea vendors. It is almost as if we are taking turns
sharing the tea and sometimes it is relaxing, but sometimes it is
competitive, as if to see who has the better tea. Some play to win,
others play to participate and share. It is usually with the aim of a
mutual enjoyment of life. Say one person has a nice Yunnan black tea
滇紅 (dian hong), there are many quality
levels available (see Tea Matrix 1A) and some are harder to find than
others. So part of the fun is if you have one or someone else has
one that is of exceptional quality, it is almost as if the game is
called to a halt and everyone just takes part in fully enjoying that
tea. Like a tasting format, going from lower quality to higher
quality is more enjoyable.